I am back with the bang

I used to write frequently which I thought to be a very effective medium to eject the thoughts on some issue and express myself instead of chatting and mingling with friends on the roadside which leads to a hot discussion without any conclusion in hand so blogging came to my mind which serves as an awesome platform to get the feedback of views.
And my idleness and joblessness (only in vacations ;)) urged me to give it a start, so here I am!!
Burning topics have always made me restless and only way to clam myself down is to express. Express the thoughts airing in my mind, making me uneasy and ungratified till they come out.
It’s a one way communication when you write but blogging gives you opportunity to refine your thought further and thus hear from others what they think on the subject and then..hmm..ponder upon it again..
So I would appreciate if people reading my blog also participate equally, I would be the happiest person to know your opinion..Cheers!!
Lemme start with the topic which has always provoked me to burst out

1 step away from execution

It obviously gives you a hint- capital punishment, you must have read on this, you must have debated on this but it leads nowhere since decisions are not made based on our arguments and agreements and so I strongly condemn this attitude of leaving a person alive who is accused and held on the charges of some heinous crime, it also raises question on the existing judicial system who weigh the seriousness of crime, India is always seen as a country who either plays a neutral role in any international issue or act on a defensive mode but this habit has always trapped the country into big problems, in one way, it’s very wise to stay neutral which avoids giving any indication of favor to any of the countries but this is preventing whole system to take firm decisions and it is also seen when it comes to national security.
Let’s make the point more clearer through an instance whenever a terrorist leader is captured, hell lot of charges are imposed, court process goes on for years, decision remains pending and gives enough time to extremist group to act in order to blackmail government by executing some plan which is harmful to nation in some way or the other and finally our government polite attitude towards them allows them to get away with the wanted, another plunder. Had it not been the case with system, it would be some other scenario and we would have not gone through all the atrocities and inhuman behavior which created tension all over and thus gives them another chance to dishonor our nation.
I don’t agree with all this processing coz it anyways is leading to our own loss and control is shifted to undesirable hands. People who don’t hesitate to kill someone else, why someone else who has the authority should hesitate to give them capital punishment, why don’t they finish the matter there itself, but it is stretched and thus result lies in front of you, what a shameful ending!!
It does not make any sense to me and I cannot discover any reason which is stopping judiciary to take some hardcore decisions which are very much mandatory keeping in view society’s and nation safety.
Is there any outside pressure which is making them reluctant or they cannot face international front by giving away such decisions, then what about Saudi Arabia which is known for its harsh punishments and thus been very successful in inducing the fear among people to commit any crime, strict and tough decisions have prevented people from doing wrong things and so..You can observe the difference.
Here I don’t cast aside the fact that political system of India and Saudi Arabia differs a lot but again I cannot see any impact of legislature on judicial system (though it’s there up to some extent) but after all it’s a issue of national security and nothing can be compromised for the same at any cost.
My time has passed thinking, in what way can this whole process be revolutionized and what method can be implemented which don’t allow the criminals to escape without bearing their part of punishment and recently I came across a article stating that decisions have actually varied along the time for the occurrence of same crime in the same situations, this again leaves me wondering about the whole thing again, truly “a vicious circle”.
Signing off
AmAn

Search for true friend

How many of you, who really cared to read my article can claim that they possess a friend whom they can truly call a "friend".
What do you think friendship is or who do you think friend is....in simpler words "A friend in need is a friend indeed".

So do we really follow this byword...in my opinion, this saying has lost its real meaning and thats the reason why we always look out for someone who can make you relieve from all the tensions, who take away your problems as his challenge and comes up with the hardcore solution, a friend whose one smile can fetch you all the joy of world, friend who would never ever expect anything from you except your affection, sympathy and love.

A friend never expects anything in return instead he would always be by your side whenever you need him. But the problem with me is that I expect a lot from my friend, I don’t impose any conditions, but you know there are no boundaries in what we call as "true friendship". should you care what others would think if you are going to do anything for your friend, if yes, up to what extent....and yes...if you are good friends...obviously you would be having a ultimate level of understanding...and that’s where comes in the stage where you don’t have to say anything, everything is just in automation mode.

Another issue which I sometimes face is that should I stick to my principles or give preference to my friendship at the time when both come together in a way and clash with each other. Till this time I have covered my journey along with my values and rules for which my friends are not responsible and they would always look forward to you for the favour. I very often find myself in this kind of situation, really feel helpless but then you have to take some decision if you give advantage to your friend, he is happy and joyous but my inner feeling, they would always remind me of my being disobedient to it.

Is there any solution to these problems...people please suggest me...how you deal with these kinds of situations....hope to listen from you guys...