How many of you, who really cared to read my article can claim that they possess a friend whom they can truly call a "friend".
What do you think friendship is or who do you think friend is....in simpler words "A friend in need is a friend indeed".
So do we really follow this byword...in my opinion, this saying has lost its real meaning and thats the reason why we always look out for someone who can make you relieve from all the tensions, who take away your problems as his challenge and comes up with the hardcore solution, a friend whose one smile can fetch you all the joy of world, friend who would never ever expect anything from you except your affection, sympathy and love.
A friend never expects anything in return instead he would always be by your side whenever you need him. But the problem with me is that I expect a lot from my friend, I don’t impose any conditions, but you know there are no boundaries in what we call as "true friendship". should you care what others would think if you are going to do anything for your friend, if yes, up to what extent....and yes...if you are good friends...obviously you would be having a ultimate level of understanding...and that’s where comes in the stage where you don’t have to say anything, everything is just in automation mode.
Another issue which I sometimes face is that should I stick to my principles or give preference to my friendship at the time when both come together in a way and clash with each other. Till this time I have covered my journey along with my values and rules for which my friends are not responsible and they would always look forward to you for the favour. I very often find myself in this kind of situation, really feel helpless but then you have to take some decision if you give advantage to your friend, he is happy and joyous but my inner feeling, they would always remind me of my being disobedient to it.
Is there any solution to these problems...people please suggest me...how you deal with these kinds of situations....hope to listen from you guys...
What do you think friendship is or who do you think friend is....in simpler words "A friend in need is a friend indeed".
So do we really follow this byword...in my opinion, this saying has lost its real meaning and thats the reason why we always look out for someone who can make you relieve from all the tensions, who take away your problems as his challenge and comes up with the hardcore solution, a friend whose one smile can fetch you all the joy of world, friend who would never ever expect anything from you except your affection, sympathy and love.
A friend never expects anything in return instead he would always be by your side whenever you need him. But the problem with me is that I expect a lot from my friend, I don’t impose any conditions, but you know there are no boundaries in what we call as "true friendship". should you care what others would think if you are going to do anything for your friend, if yes, up to what extent....and yes...if you are good friends...obviously you would be having a ultimate level of understanding...and that’s where comes in the stage where you don’t have to say anything, everything is just in automation mode.
Another issue which I sometimes face is that should I stick to my principles or give preference to my friendship at the time when both come together in a way and clash with each other. Till this time I have covered my journey along with my values and rules for which my friends are not responsible and they would always look forward to you for the favour. I very often find myself in this kind of situation, really feel helpless but then you have to take some decision if you give advantage to your friend, he is happy and joyous but my inner feeling, they would always remind me of my being disobedient to it.
Is there any solution to these problems...people please suggest me...how you deal with these kinds of situations....hope to listen from you guys...
1 comment:
dude .. check out this one ..
"A man who values individuals above his own integrity is a wretch, not a free thinker."
from : http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man/
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